Go Get Happy.
I have been thinking about this lately. Ask yourself if you are happy? Go ahead, I'll wait.
Right, what was the answer? If you said no, then why are you unhappy? If you have a medical problem, then you are excused, but otherwise, what really stops us from being happy?
I think the only thing that stops us from being happy are ourselves. There are so many things that people complain about, and who blames us, we are in a world of complainers. But do we really have the right to complain if we haven't put up a fight for being happy?
Let's have a quick look at probably the biggest complaint I see here on Xanga. "I hate being single".
So what do you do about that? Do you sit at home on facebook all evening? Or do you fight for the happiness of being in a couple will bring you? Do your research, picking up people in bars isn't often the best way of finding a secure relationship. It CAN work, but often it doesn't. Go out and join community groups for people with similar interests. I'm not telling you to fight completely aggressively, but fight a smart battle.
There are so many other complaints. And I really don't have the time to address any more with detail but I just had to say, if you are unhappy, make yourself happy.
A friend of mine was shocked recently when I told him I was truly happy.
The reason is I have fought for this happiness. It has been a hard battle and there were many tears on the way.
The main thing is that I saw risks and I took them. I can think of three occasions where I took a chance and my life would be so different if I had made the "easier" choice.
So now ask yourself, Why are you putting up with being unhappy?